Posted by
Recreational Ranter on Friday, December 15, 2006 2:22:39 PM
So I'm with my mom and dad in the back of our '62 Ford Falcon stationwagon driving Route 66. We're on our annual roadtrip from California back to my parents' home county in Tennessee. And, yes, I'm old enough to remember driving Route 66 just before the completion of Interstate 40. Town names like Dagget, Ludlow, Amboy, Winslow - yeah, I've stood on a corner in Winslow, AZ! - and Tucumcari have meaning to me!
Say you're my dad. It's hot - it oughta be! You're in the desert of western Arizona and it's July! You can't afford a car with air conditioning yet! You see a sign informing you that the next gas won't be for another, say, 200 miles. Look at your gas gage; should you pull over, or do you keep pushing through? At $0.25 a gallon, it won't break the bank, but you want to make Gallup, NM by 5:00 P.M. Okay, it's cutting it a little close on the fuel, but you decide to keep rolling.
But wait, about fifty miles into it you see a sign for "Rattlesnake Zeke's Snake Farm and Petting Zoo" or "Big Chief's Genuine Indian Curios". You can get off the highway in thirty miles the sign tells you. After that, it's another twenty miles to Zeke's and Big Chief's on a "convenient" side road.
Is there a gas station there? Doesn't say. But, hey, you've been driving awhile and you and your wife could use a break. Your little boy (me!) would get a kick out of it for sure and certain . You can probably visit these fine establishments and still just make it to the next fuel stop, even if Zeke and Big Chief don't have any gas. What do you do?
I think this is a pretty good analogy for how we and many in the Christian sub-culture approach not just the holiday season, but time in general. We've all got twenty-four hours in a day and seven days in a week, no more, no less. How do we manage it?
How often do you and I look forward to just getting through this season? One more party to attend - oh yeah, and I said I'd bring an entree'! That list of presents I've got to buy, but what about that mall traffic? Darn, I haven't gotten started on my Christmas cards yet!
Any of that sound familiar?
Look, folks, time is sacred, and just as He uses ordinary stuff like wine and bread, and - oh yeah - plain-Jane folks like you and me to get wonderful and holy things accomplished, likewise, He wants to use our time, too! I mean think about it, the second Person in the godhead, the direct agent in the creation of all that is, Jesus, the Son of God is born into a peasant family in the Roman province of Judea - what the average Roman soldier probably thought of as a hardship tour! His human lineage was from the royal house of King David himself, but, obviously, the family had fallen on considerably harder times since the good ol' days. No palaces, no servants, no royal robes - the point is, He didn't get over! God Himself becomes one of us!!!
I know, you've heard this before, but I wonder if we've lost a good deal of our capacity to truly enter in and celebrate this fact due to our inability or unwillingness to correctly manage - and sanctify - our time.
So here's my prescription: Just as we had to be careful about how we planned out our trip on old Route 66 when I was a boy, so we've got to be careful and intentional in our use of time. If we would look forward to and gladly celebrate the memory of His first coming, we must learn to say yes to some things, no to others, as well as learn to hear the word no!
Are the expectations of our family and friends, our culture's (or our own) truly of God? It's not to say that going to Zeke's is wrong per se, but if doing that causes me to run out of gas or to get so close to it that getting to my ultimate destination (i.e. Gallup, NM) becomes overly stressful, then I'd say that isn't a good thing. So what about one more party? What about all those gifts? What about all those cards?
"But , Dave, it's not Christmas without ________________!"
Really?
Is __________ about what God thinks, or is it about what you, or your family, or your sub-culture thinks? If you and I are going to re-claim the Christ in Christmas, it has to do a great deal more with allowing Him back into our schedules - with controlling those things we can in our schedules - than it does with meeting all kinds of expectations. What about going to church and celebrating that Advent service with God's people? What about gathering with some family and truly good friends - ones who don't weigh you down with distracting expectations - to pray, eat a meal, and remember with gratitude our Saviour's wonderful gift? Or what about taking that special CD with the Christmas songs on it you so love - the one that, when you're in the company of others, you have to restrain the tears of joy and gratitude welling up inside you - why not pause, set aside just a little time to be alone with God, play those songs, and weep with joy, hands lifted in the air to the One who gave Himself and keeps on giving Himself for you?
Warning! You may step on some toes! For all of your good intentions, folks at work, or in your family may think you're being rude or just plain weird. Oh well! Don't go out of your way to offend people, but if having a quiet evening at home or at church, truly enjoying God's gift and giving back praise and worship to Him offends, too bad! Besides, deep down, I'll bet many of them wish they could do the same thing. Maybe you'll set a trend! What'd be wrong with that?
So slow down! Take the time to enjoy Him this Christmas. It's OK. Really!